What has ruled my life more than anything else, is not my intelligence or lack thereof, not my horoscope sign, or being bipolar with unexpected highs and lows...  but my INTJ personality which is unique and found in less than 2% of the general population.

What makes this a problem is that INTJ's are oftentimes MISUNDERSTOOD...  and, it is this misunderstanding that causes the problem.

They are misunderstood because of their INTROVERTED INTUITION

Introverted Intuition is the ability to grasp and get a sense of a pattern or plan. Information that is usually hard to understand and dissect is easily processed through Introverted Intuition.

Introverted intuition is a perceiving function. Carl Jung called the perceiving functions “irrational” and that’s because they aren’t decision-making functions. Intuition is a way of perceiving the world and gathering information. Introverted intuitive's focus on the subjective, internal world of the unconscious to find abstract and symbolic connections and relationships between the unconscious and the environment. Ni-users are focused on discovering underlying meanings, significance, and patterns.